What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
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What is the best way to get over your ex?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Was Daenerys' downfall inevitable after she left Meereen in Game of Thrones?
39~ What are your love languages?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If white people had been slaves, would WLM be a thing right now?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
What great song was "ruined" once you really listened to the lyrics?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
What are some best sources of great porn?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Any that are a turn off?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Will Canadians still buy American products?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
What does it mean if someone asks if it’s pink?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Are there any nude pictures of women with big tits?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Nothing too Serious
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
What is your favorite position? Why?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
52~ What are your hobbies?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Do you think this brought you closer together?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Please share Did you stop?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
If yes, what?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Would you read them together?
Family Relation Age Play
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
*** Random Questions ***
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
If you win, what will you make them do?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
29- How superstitious are you?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
How old are you? Male or Female?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Any that are a turn off?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
The Ice Breaker Questions
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?